<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Tall Poppy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Essays at the intersection of floristry, business and creativity, for designers determined to bloom.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!5rkd!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F5d5cedb3-7ef9-44c8-b62f-4633b3b23af4_256x256.png</url><title>The Tall Poppy</title><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 11:22:43 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en-gb]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[hello@breemcoaching.com.au]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[hello@breemcoaching.com.au]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[hello@breemcoaching.com.au]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[hello@breemcoaching.com.au]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[The exact moment you're losing the booking]]></title><description><![CDATA[If your bookings are slower than usual and your first instinct is to redesign your proposal, this episode is for you.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-exact-moment-youre-losing-the-03d</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-exact-moment-youre-losing-the-03d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 20:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203302399/58b6123fc1d2796c7255ed5ea9ce59e3.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If your bookings are slower than usual and your first instinct is to redesign your proposal, this episode is for you.</p><p>In this episode, I break down why so many florists are pouring their energy into proposals, templates and workflows when the real leverage sits inside the consultation itself. Couples are comparing more wedding florists than ever, and the way you show up in that conversation is a key part of whether they trust you enough to book.</p><p>Based on my Substack essay, <a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/breefloristcoach/p/before-the-quote-theres-you?r=8ae5us&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web">Before the Quote, There's You</a>, published on <a href="https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/">The Tall Poppy</a>, this episode covers what the latest research says about how couples are choosing wedding vendors, why consultation skills are the most underused lever in a floristry business, and the one shift that changes every future enquiry.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A new era for the podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[A relaunch, a rename and a new direction for florists building booked out businesses.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/a-new-era-for-the-podcast-b5b</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/a-new-era-for-the-podcast-b5b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2026 08:41:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073582/121af873c700702da2df6facfbd7fa0a.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A relaunch, a rename and a new direction for florists building booked out businesses.</p><p>Cultivate is a podcast for wedding florists, floral designers and creative business owners who want to be deliberate about how they build their floristry businesses - covering wedding consultations, sales, pricing, marketing, client experience, strategy and so much more.</p><p>In the first episode I&#8217;ve released in almost two years, I&#8217;ll take you behind the scenes of what&#8217;s shifted, why I&#8217;ve renamed the podcast Cultivate and what kind of content you can expect moving forward.</p><p>Welcome to a new era for the podcast.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Chemistry, consultations and why couples choose]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being the wedding florist they love is not always enough to make you the one they book.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/chemistry-consultations-and-why-couples</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/chemistry-consultations-and-why-couples</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2026 07:30:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W3CV!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F447728f9-d637-4c95-9781-18eeb1f7330d_6000x3500.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span>Most florists have had the experience before. Two seemingly similar enquiries. Two consultations. Two different couples who, on paper, could just as easily have booked as one another.</span></p><p><span>In one, something clicks. Your questions land. Their answers feel genuine. The conversation feels relaxed. And by the time the consultation is done, working together feels like the obvious choice. For them and for you.</span></p><p><span>In the other, that same feeling never quite arrives. The conversation feels harder to make sense of. They seem to be looking to you for answers, but you&#8217;re not entirely sure what question you&#8217;re answering. You leave feeling as though you were having two different conversations. Nothing was technically wrong and still, somehow, you leave questioning yourself.</span></p><p><span>Ask a florist how they know a consultation went well and you&#8217;ll usually hear some version of the same thing:</span></p><p><em><span>&#8220;We just clicked.&#8221;</span></em></p><p><em><span>&#8220;The chemistry was really good.&#8221;</span></em></p><p><em><span>&#8220;They were just my kind of people.&#8221;</span></em></p><p><span>It feels true because it fits a story most of us accept: that some people simply have chemistry with others, while some don&#8217;t.</span></p><p><span>The trouble is, describing chemistry this way tells us very little. It explains the feeling. But not what created it.</span></p><p><span>Which makes chemistry sound like it exists somewhere between personality, timing and good luck, rather than in anything that happened during the consultation itself. It makes us wonder if some couples are simply easier to connect with, some florists are naturally more magnetic, or if the outcome was largely determined before either of you had said very much at all.</span></p><p><span>But if that were true, there would be little to nothing we could do about it. No way to improve beyond trying to become more likeable, hoping the next couple feels easier to talk to, or waiting for chemistry to magically appear.</span></p><p><span>There is something revealing in the way florists explain the consultations that feel successful compared with those that leave them questioning what went wrong. When a consultation works, the explanation usually exists somewhere outside of us. We credit the couple for being easy to talk to, the conversation for flowing naturally or some intangible compatibility between us - as though the success belonged to the dynamic itself.</span></p><p><span>But when a consultation doesn&#8217;t go the way we hoped, it&#8217;s rarely the chemistry itself we question. It&#8217;s ourselves.</span></p><p><span>I was too nervous. I talked too much. I should have asked better questions. I explained the pricing badly. I&#8217;m just not very good at sales.</span></p><p><span>Chemistry becomes the explanation for success. And we become the explanation for failure. One gives the outcome to something we cannot control. The other turns it into a judgement about who we are. But neither necessarily tells us what happened inside the conversation.</span></p><p><span>This is not an argument against self-reflection. Sometimes we do rush, interrupt or become so focused on offering the right answer that we stop listening as carefully to the question. There is enormous value in being willing to examine your own contribution honestly. But there is a difference between examining yourself as one factor in the outcome and appointing yourself as the entire explanation.</span></p><p><span>Self-awareness asks: What happened inside that conversation, and where might I have contributed to it?</span></p><p><span>Self-blame decides: Something about me was inadequate.</span></p><p><span>And in our desire to make sense of things, we can reach a verdict about ourselves before we have properly investigated the interaction. Responsibility without understanding is not accountability, it&#8217;s self-blame.</span></p><p><span>The problem is not only that it feels terrible. It can also send us away to improve the wrong thing. If we decide the issue was confidence, we work on being more confident. If we decide we spoke too much, we force ourselves to speak less. If we decide the chemistry was missing, we conclude that the couple was simply not the right fit. But what if none of those explanations captures why they did not book?</span></p><p><span>A useful explanation should help us locate where an assumption went untested, where meaning became unclear or where two interpretations began to separate. Chemistry gives us luck. Self-blame makes us the problem. Neither gives us a diagnosis.</span></p><p><span>We clicked, or I wasn&#8217;t good enough. Case closed.</span></p><p><span>That may make the outcome easier to accept, but it does not make the outcome very easy to learn from. The consultation stops being a conversation we can study and just becomes more evidence for a case we are building against ourselves. And when the story feels complete, there is very little left to investigate.</span></p><p><span>But if the same couple can walk away feeling deeply understood by one vendor and completely misunderstood by another, then perhaps chemistry isn&#8217;t the explanation after all.</span></p><p><span>Which raises a different question: What are we missing?</span></p><h4><strong><br>The One Thing The Best Consultations Have In Common</strong></h4><p><span>The longer I conduct wedding consultations myself and study the consultations of the florists I coach, the less interested I&#8217;ve become in chemistry and far more interested in what appears to create the chemistry itself. I&#8217;ve found that the consultations that feel best are rarely the ones with the biggest budget or where the florist had all the answers.</span></p><p><span>Time and time again, I&#8217;ve found they tend to have one thing in common: Shared understanding.</span></p><p><span>This is what I call consensus. Not consensus in the modern sense of majority agreement, but in the original sense of the word - from the Latin consensus, meaning &#8220;agreement&#8221; or &#8220;accord,&#8221; and consentire, literally &#8220;to feel together.&#8221;&#185;</span></p><p><span>Understanding exists when both people know more than they did before. Consensus exists when those understandings have been brought into agreement. The florist understands the couple, their vision and what matters most to them, and the couple understands what they want, what is possible, what the florist is proposing and what happens next. In short, they are no longer using the same words while attaching different meanings to them.</span></p><p><span>Consensus is not a new concept. Related processes have been explored across different disciplines. Philosopher Hans-Georg Gadamer described something similar in his concept of the &#8216;fusion of horizons&#8217;: the moment when two ways of understanding the world meet and form a wider shared view.&#178; Communication theorists, building on philosophical work by Edmund Husserl, use the related concept of intersubjectivity to describe the shared field of meaning people construct between them.&#179; Or, as I like to describe it, consensus is a meeting of minds.</span></p><p><span>In a world obsessed with pricing strategies, sales scripts, enquiry workflows and stem counts, Consensus hardly sounds revolutionary. But the more consultations I review, the harder it becomes to ignore the relationship between shared understanding and a couple&#8217;s readiness to commit. Because once you start paying attention to the quality of understanding between two people, outcomes that once seemed difficult to explain begin to make sense. Like why extraordinarily talented designers sometimes lose bookings they seem perfectly positioned to win.</span></p><p><span>Their work may have created interest. But interest alone does not give a couple everything they need to make a decision.</span></p><p><span>Loving the work answers one question: Is this florist talented?</span></p><p><span>Booking requires the couple to answer another: Do I feel certain enough that this florist understands us, can translate what we want into our wedding and knows how to move us forward?</span></p><p><span>A couple can be completely convinced of your talent and still uncertain about whether you are the person who should be trusted with their wedding. That is the space between admiration and commitment.</span></p><p><span>Beautiful work creates interest. Consensus creates the certainty required for commitment.</span></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W3CV!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F447728f9-d637-4c95-9781-18eeb1f7330d_6000x3500.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W3CV!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F447728f9-d637-4c95-9781-18eeb1f7330d_6000x3500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!W3CV!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F447728f9-d637-4c95-9781-18eeb1f7330d_6000x3500.jpeg 848w, 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They might mean creams and ivories, delicate linen and something understated.</span></p><p><span>You might hear relaxed and think garden-led, loose and unstructured. They might mean low-maintenance. Or not too formal. Or not too expensive.</span></p><p><span>The language matches. The meaning does not. And that is the difference between collecting information and creating shared understanding.</span></p><p><span>Because in consultations, the devil really is in the details. Not only the details you collect. The meaning the couple has attached to them.</span></p><p><span>Both parties can leave a consultation believing they discussed the same wedding. The florist can take detailed notes, answer every question and faithfully repeat the couple&#8217;s language in the proposal, and still get it wrong. Because while the florist may have recorded every word correctly, they may still have misunderstood what the couple meant.</span></p><p><span>The florist now has to turn words like romantic, relaxed, abundant or understated into flowers, scale, colour, mechanics and a proposal worth thousands of dollars. If her interpretation does not resemble what the couple believed they communicated, the proposal can feel wrong even when it reflects everything she wrote down.</span></p><p><span>That is how a booking can be lost without anything dramatic ever happening. There does not have to be an awkward silence, difficult objection or one catastrophic sentence that makes the conversation fall apart.</span></p><p><span>In my experience coaching florists, they often search for the obvious mistake because obvious mistakes are easier to identify than subtle differences in interpretation. But sometimes there was no obvious mistake. The florist and the couple simply left believing they understood one another when they did not.</span></p><h4><strong><br>How To Create Consensus</strong></h4><p><span>So how do we move from two separate interpretations towards consensus? By reducing uncertainty.</span></p><p><span>Every consultation begins with some. The couple does not yet know how you will interpret their ideas, what might be possible within their budget, how your process works or whether you understand what matters most to them. You do not yet know what they mean when they say they want something modern, which details are non-negotiable, what they are still unsure about or what they need from the conversation in order to move forward.</span></p><p><span>The purpose of the consultation is not simply to exchange information. It is to surface what each person means, test whether it has been understood and bridge the gap between what the couple believes they have communicated and what the florist believes she has understood.</span></p><p><span>Communication researchers Charles Berger and Richard Calabrese gave this process a name in 1975: Uncertainty Reduction Theory.&#8308; They argued that during early interactions, people use communication to reduce uncertainty about one another so they can better understand the other person&#8217;s intentions, make sense of their behaviour, decide how to respond and determine whether the interaction should continue.</span></p><p><span>In a consultation, that happens through a progressive exchange. The couple expresses what they mean. The florist interprets it. The florist reflects that understanding back. The couple confirms it, corrects it or offers another piece of information that changes the florist&#8217;s understanding. And the exchange begins again.</span></p><p><span>Each time an interpretation is confirmed, corrected or refined, an assumption is replaced with something both people now understand to be true. That is how Consensus forms: meaning is tested rather than assumed.</span></p><p><span>Which is why simply asking more questions is not enough. Twenty questions can produce twenty answers and still leave the most important uncertainty untouched. The value of a question is not simply that it produces an answer. It is whether the answer brings the two of you closer to understanding the same thing.</span></p><p><span>Not only: What colours do you like? But: Why those colours, specifically?</span></p><p><span>Not only: What is your budget? But: Which parts of the day matter enough that you want to make sure you have budget to support them?</span></p><p><span>Then reflect the answer back in your own words. Not to prove that you were listening. To test whether the meaning you understood aligns with the meaning they intended to communicate.</span></p><p><span>That &#8220;yes, exactly&#8221; from the client not only confirms that you heard the words, but that your interpretation matches what they meant. Each time that happens, uncertainty reduces and shared understanding increases. And the two perspectives move closer together until consensus is reached.</span></p><p><span>Of course, not all uncertainty disappears at once and not all uncertainty is the same. At different points in the consultation, the couple may be uncertain about whether they feel comfortable with you, whether you understand what they mean, what is possible, what they should prioritise or what happens if they decide to proceed.</span></p><p><span>Consensus develops when the information exchanged has been interpreted, reflected back and understood in the same way by both people. Not because either person has been persuaded to abandon their perspective. But because the differences between their interpretations have been made visible and resolved.</span></p><p><span>Consensus does not guarantee the booking. But without it, the couple is being asked to commit while important questions remain unresolved. By reducing that uncertainty, aiming for consensus creates the conditions through which interest can become commitment.</span></p><h4><strong><br><span>Once You See It, You Can&#8217;t Unsee It</span></strong></h4><p><span>Once you understand consensus, consultations become easier to make sense of. You stop judging them only by whether the couple booked or whether the chemistry was there. You start noticing where understanding increased. Where assumptions remained. Where two people believed they were discussing the same thing while holding different interpretations of it.</span></p><p><span>And once you begin noticing that inside consultations, you start seeing it everywhere else too. In client emails where the words were clear, but the expectation behind them wasn&#8217;t. In conversations with family and friends where both people felt misunderstood, despite believing they had explained themselves perfectly. In decisions that remain unresolved because everyone involved thinks they agree, but nobody has stopped to confirm what they are actually agreeing to.</span></p><p><span>That is why consensus is not only a consultation skill. Consultations are one place where the presence - or absence - of shared understanding becomes particularly visible and particularly consequential.</span></p><p><span>When consensus is present, people understand what matters, what is possible and what moving forward requires. When it is absent, even genuine interest can come to a halt in uncertainty. And once you understand that, chemistry loses some of its mystery.</span></p><p><span>Chemistry is no longer something you have to manufacture, perform or hope will appear. Because chemistry is not the mechanism itself. It is often the feeling created when uncertainty is reduced and two people realise they share the same understanding.</span></p><p><span>But the value of understanding consensus extends beyond improving your consultation skills. It also changes what you make the outcome mean about you.</span></p><p><span>A lost booking no longer has to become proof that you were not confident enough. Magnetic enough. Persuasive enough. Or somehow not meant to be doing this.</span></p><p><span>It can become evidence of something far more specific: a meaning that was assumed rather than tested. A question that remained unresolved. An interpretation that separated from the couple&#8217;s without either person realising it. A moment where the conversation needed to stay open for a little longer.</span></p><p><span>That is the difference between an explanation that punishes you and one that teaches you.</span></p><p><span>Chemistry tells you how the conversation felt. Self-blame tells you who to blame. Consensus gives you something you can examine.</span></p><p><span>But we would be naive if we believed that consensus forms all at once.</span></p><p><span>Trust makes disclosure possible. Disclosure creates context. Context makes understanding possible. Understanding allows guidance to feel relevant. And meaningful guidance gives the couple enough certainty to decide whether they are ready to move forward.</span></p><p><span>Each part of the conversation creates the conditions required for the next.</span></p><p><span>Which leaves us with a more precise question: What is the sequence beneath the consultations that seem to click?</span></p><div><hr></div><p><strong>References</strong></p><ol><li><p>Online Etymology Dictionary. <a href="https://www.etymonline.com/word/consensus">&#8220;Consensus.&#8221;</a> From Latin <em>consensus</em> &#8220;agreement, accord,&#8221; past participle of <em>consentire</em> &#8220;feel together,&#8221; from assimilated form of <em>com</em> &#8220;with, together&#8221; + <em>sentire</em> &#8220;to feel.&#8221;</p></li><li><p>Gadamer HG. <em>Truth and Method</em>. 2nd rev. ed. Weinsheimer J, Marshall DG, trans. New York, NY: Continuum; 1989. (Original work published 1960.)</p></li><li><p>Husserl E. <em>Cartesian Meditations: An Introduction to Phenomenology</em>. Cairns D, trans. The Hague, Netherlands: Martinus Nijhoff; 1960. (Original work published 1931.)</p></li><li><p>Berger CR, Calabrese RJ. <a href="https://academic.oup.com/hcr/article-abstract/1/2/99/4566689">Some explorations in initial interaction and beyond: Toward a developmental theory of interpersonal communication</a>. <em>Human Communication Research</em>. 1975;1(2):99-112.</p></li></ol>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Before the quote, there's you]]></title><description><![CDATA[By the time they're reading your proposal, the decision has already been made.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/before-the-quote-theres-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/before-the-quote-theres-you</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 07:31:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qqmd!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0ffe6ec6-2f8e-472d-b320-a40ef8afeff0_1100x440.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Knot&#8217;s 2026 Real Weddings Study put a number on something many florists have felt for the last eighteen months: couples are shopping differently.&#185; They are reaching out to more vendors, collecting more quotes, running more comparisons. 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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is there such a thing as a sustainable florist featuring special guest Rita from the Sustainable Floristry Network]]></title><description><![CDATA[I had the pleasure of speaking with Rita, founder of the Sustainable Floristry Network (SFN) and the No Floral Foam Movement.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-sustainable-315</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/is-there-such-a-thing-as-a-sustainable-315</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Sep 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073583/cab4d4d7aec53f128c4728ec2f5a28f0.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had the pleasure of speaking with Rita, founder of the Sustainable Floristry Network (SFN) and the No Floral Foam Movement. As a second-generation florist and science writer, Rita shares her insights on the disconnect between the floral industry and sustainability, and how SFN aims to address these challenges. As a member of the SFN, I&#8217;m proud to support sustainable practices at April and Fritz, and we discuss how florists can reduce their environmental impact by eliminating floral foam, avoiding single-use plastics, and prioritising local blooms. Join us as we dive into the complexities of creating a sustainable floral business and how we can move the industry toward a more eco-friendly future.</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>How the wasteful nature of floral foam prompted Rita to explore sustainable floristry, launch SFN and begin the No Floral Foam Movement.</p></li><li><p>Why sustainability matters in all industries, not just floristry, and why you should care about it as a consumer using florals in an event.</p></li><li><p>Whether a sustainable florist actually exists and what responsibilities lay with the consumer versus the florist or event vendor.</p></li><li><p>If you need to sacrifice aesthetics in your floral design in the name of being sustainable.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Visit Sustainable Floristry Network&#8217;s website: <a href="https://www.sustainablefloristry.org/">https://www.sustainablefloristry.org/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Connect with SFN on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sustainablefloristry/">@sustainablefloristry</a></p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Never settle for small when your business dreams are big]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today's episode is directed at business owners, entrepreneurs, and anyone working in a physical space that engages with clients or customers.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/never-settle-for-small-when-your-9d3</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/never-settle-for-small-when-your-9d3</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073584/a8363e0427f119f833be40099878a198.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today's episode is directed at business owners, entrepreneurs, and anyone working in a physical space that engages with clients or customers. I'll be touching on what it takes to stand out from the crowd and how to incorporate different elements into your physical business to reach your next level. The reality is: Every moment there are new people coming into your field and challenging you, your clients, your everything. In my view, you need to be noticeable to skyrocket your reputation and attract new clients. With the corporate events that we participate in, what we do is create brand experiences. Some might think they're just flowers but I truly do believe that floral design can offer so much to a space, a business and your brand.</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>How my previous experience working at one of the most renowned global technology companies influenced my understanding of strong brand identity.</p></li><li><p>The importance of standing out in business and being memorable through thoughtful design and presentation.</p></li><li><p>A real-life example of how my client uses high-impact floral installations in their space to stand out in their industry and leave a lasting impression on their own clients.</p></li><li><p>Why you should prioritise standing out to your dream clients to increase brand loyalty, word-of-mouth referrals and ultimately, business growth.&nbsp;</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA["I have never met a florist like you"]]></title><description><![CDATA[From early morning setups to the final touches on the big day, I spend this episode reflecting on the dedication and personalised service that sets April & Fritz apart in the floral industry. This has been inspired by an experience that I had at a client&#8217;s wedding recently.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/i-have-never-met-a-florist-like-you-305</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/i-have-never-met-a-florist-like-you-305</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Sep 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073585/e312edc1fdfb8b76860e82382d2378ad.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From early morning setups to the final touches on the big day, I spend this episode reflecting on the dedication and personalised service that sets April &amp; Fritz apart in the floral industry.&nbsp;This has been inspired by an experience that I had at a client&#8217;s wedding recently. I got speaking to this fabulous woman who introduced herself as one of the MCs for the night, who was also related to the couple. After I explained that I was the florist and spoke about everything that I had done for the couple, she said &#8220;I have never met a florist like you&#8221;. And in that moment, I was really surprised, and it led me down a path of really digging into why she may have complimented me and my service in this way. I wanted to share my insights with you.&nbsp;</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Building meaningful connections with clients and the joy of going above and beyond to make their special day truly memorable.</p></li><li><p>The journey that I take with a couple, from the initial inquiry to the final wedding day setup, and why I think this approach stands out in the industry.</p></li><li><p>The value of building relationships with my clients beyond just the flowers.</p></li><li><p>Why I am so dedicated to ensuring every detail is perfect on the wedding day, even beyond my floral duties.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The event planning pep talk you didn't know you needed]]></title><description><![CDATA[I felt called to do something a little bit different today and step back from my usual structured approach to the podcast.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-event-planning-pep-talk-you-didnt-f52</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-event-planning-pep-talk-you-didnt-f52</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073586/25964f3bca45149a2b1e9646ce3c91ca.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I felt called to do something a little bit different today and step back from my usual structured approach to the podcast. I want to have an honest and heartfelt riff about the challenges of event planning, because it can sometimes feel really, really hard. Event planning requires you to put the building blocks down and lay the foundation for your perfect event with countless decisions and details to be considered along the way. And like anything, not all things go to plan and obstacles can be completely out of your control. So I wanted to share my take on this important topic and share some suggestions on how to best get back on your feet when you&#8217;re feeling a little overwhelmed by it all.</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>The inherent imperfections and challenges that come along with event planning.</p></li><li><p>Tips for ways to navigate feelings of overwhelm when it comes to the many decisions you need to make for your event.</p></li><li><p>Leaning on your vendors for support during the hard times and the importance of asking them for help.</p></li><li><p>The power of resilience and creativity in event planning and a reminder to focus on the primary goal of your event instead of perfection.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The power of professional training with Myhanh from Melbourne Polytechnic]]></title><description><![CDATA[In contrast to last week&#8217;s topic, in this episode we&#8217;re talking to floristry Myhanh, the lead floristry teacher at Melbourne Polytechnic and one of my own mentors during my time studying a Certificate III in Floristry, about formal floristry qualifications.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-power-of-professional-training-f0c</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-power-of-professional-training-f0c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073587/7751befddf00cce1b447af5a3c63d1cd.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In contrast to last week&#8217;s topic, in this episode we&#8217;re talking to floristry Myhanh, the lead floristry teacher at Melbourne Polytechnic and one of my own mentors during my time studying a Certificate III in Floristry, about formal floristry qualifications. With years of expertise as a florist, business owner, and educator, Myhanh reveals how professional training translates into flawless execution, creative confidence, and peace of mind for your big event. We&#8217;ll discuss how to spot the difference between a well-trained florist and why that matters when bringing your vision to life and so much more. If you&#8217;re planning an event and want to ensure every floral detail is perfect, this episode is a must-listen.</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Myhanh&#8217;s insights on the importance of professional training and how this translates into peace of mind for clients by knowing that the person creating the florals for your event is well-equipped to bring your vision to life.</p></li><li><p>Learn why hiring a professionally trained florist means you&#8217;re choosing someone who&#8217;s mastered their craft through structured learning, rigorous training, and industry standards - so you can trust that your event&#8217;s florals will exceed expectations.</p></li><li><p>Why continuous learning, training and mentoring after a florist's formal education means that your chosen florist isn&#8217;t just "winging it" but has taken the next step to hone their craft.</p></li><li><p>Myhanh shares her red flags to empower you to make informed decisions, helping them avoid vendors who may not deliver the quality or service you expect.&nbsp;</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Check out the Certificate III in Floristry with Melbourne Polytechnic <a href="https://www.melbournepolytechnic.edu.au/study/certificate-iii/floristry/non-apprenticeship/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwwae1BhC_ARIsAK4Jfrx1XuImBgOLw1PMCNaiNHt7suZhiwUNy60ETmNJ1tXkBJRSNKHDf78aAruSEALw_wcB">here</a>.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How a self-taught florist can transform your event with Piper and Posie]]></title><description><![CDATA[We are diving into the journey of a self-taught floral designer who has made waves in the Melbourne floristry scene.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-a-self-taught-florist-can-transform-f6b</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-a-self-taught-florist-can-transform-f6b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073588/94d4fda05ae6205312f63857673e72de.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are diving into the journey of a self-taught floral designer who has made waves in the Melbourne floristry scene. I&#8217;m joined by the talented Piper of Piper and Posie, a flourishing floral designer who has built her business from the ground up over the past five years. We'll be diving into her experience as a self-taught florist and how she&#8217;s worked with clients to achieve their dream event, without the need for formal training. Plus, stay tuned for a special guest appearance from Piper's charming bulldog, Pearl!&nbsp;</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Piper&#8217;s journey into floristry and how starting her business during the pandemic proves that creativity and resilience can thrive in any situation (hint: these are qualities you&#8217;re going to want in your floral designer!)</p></li><li><p>The difference between traditional floristry training and being self-taught, and how embracing a non-traditional path led her to find her own style and unique design approach.</p></li><li><p>The importance of connection with your designer and key questions to ask potential vendors to ensure a smooth planning process and greater peace of mind.</p></li><li><p>The importance of setting realistic expectations and how a designer who sets clear expectations within your budget helps create a stress-free planning experience and delivers results that meet, or even exceed, your vision.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Connect with Piper on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/piperandposie_/">@piperandposie_</a></p><p>Visit Piper and Posie&#8217;s website: <a href="https://piperandposie.com/">https://piperandposie.com/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why care about insurance?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today we are diving into a topic that might not be the most glamorous, but it's absolutely essential - insurance.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-care-about-insurance-c04</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-care-about-insurance-c04</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 13 Aug 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073589/5c96b65ac287104f4087d9f510dceda4.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today we are diving into a topic that might not be the most glamorous, but it's absolutely essential - insurance. I&#8217;m joined by the lovely Casey from Sparksure, who has over 11 years of experience in the insurance world and a passion for eliminating the stress and confusion that comes with it. From understanding the types of insurance your vendors should have to know how to bring it up during your planning process, Casey lays it all out for us. Whether you're planning a wedding, a corporate event or any special occasion, this episode will help you stay ahead of any potential mishaps and help to ensure your event is memorable for all the right reasons.&nbsp;</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Why hiring vendors without insurance can lead to complications if something goes wrong on the day of your event.</p></li><li><p>The importance of reviewing terms and conditions, as they often include insurance details and warnings that clients may need their own insurance - which can easily be missed.</p></li><li><p>Questions to ask your vendors to ensure that you are protected and some potential red flags to keep an eye out for.</p></li><li><p>Some risks and unpredictabilities that can arise when working with nature in event design and the importance of clear terms and conditions to manage your expectations.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Please be aware that the content of this podcast episode is general advice and not personal advice. Sparksure can tell you about the relevant products and can collect information from you to determine if we can arrange the product or cover for you. However, Sparksure are not able to tell you if the product or an option within it is specifically appropriate for you, having regard to your objectives, financial situation or needs. Because of this, you need to consider the appropriateness of the general advice given in regards to your personal situation before acting upon it.</p><p>---</p><p>Connect with Casey on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/spark.sure">@spark.sure</a></p><p>Visit Sparksure&#8217;s website <a href="https://www.sparksure.com.au/">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Casey on LinkedIn here.</p><p>Click to read the <a href="https://secure.ermonline.com.au/financialservices/temp/tmp_202408122047_BE012AE1-A080-085E-6977884CCA5B47CD/FSG__Sparksure_Pty_Ltd_V002_12_January_2024.pdf">Financial Services Guide</a> and <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1779-QOp50OhXqO-zpiRfxh70ZliAPZsd/view">Statement of Services</a>.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your final arrangements with The Funeral Fix]]></title><description><![CDATA[Our podcast explores the art and emotional impact of floral design in creating memorable events - and funerals are no exception.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/your-final-arrangements-with-the-ddd</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/your-final-arrangements-with-the-ddd</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073590/2aa82fee2dfd67a10c9815372e0fc902.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our podcast explores the art and emotional impact of floral design in creating memorable events - and funerals are no exception. With Dying to Know Day approaching on Thursday the 8th of August, my conversation with Oli and Yaz from The Funeral Fix is timely. The Funeral Fix is a training program for funeral celebrants that they created back in 2021, and is a program that I graduated from before offering funeral floristry at April and Fritz. I wanted to bring Oli and Yaz onto the podcast in the lead-up to Dying to Know Day because this year's theme focuses on discussing final arrangements. In this episode we explore how we can create personalised services and integrate healing rituals in particular with nature. It&#8217;s all about understanding how we can support our loved ones through thoughtful planning and creating ceremonies that truly reflect a life well-lived. I hope this discussion inspires you to embrace this important topic with openness, care and positivity.</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>How my partner Rob changed my perspective on death and ways that this shaped my journey with funeral floristry, alongside my learnings from The Funeral Fix.</p></li><li><p>Understanding funeral celebrancy &amp; the funeral space, including the role of a funeral celebrant in supporting families.</p></li><li><p>The role of rituals in modern funerals and the significance of personalised arrangements, and how this can shift your perspective on end of life ceremonies.</p></li><li><p>How you can incorporate nature into rituals to create meaningful end of life ceremonies for your loved ones.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>&#8212;</p><p>Visit The Funeral Fix website <a href="https://school.funeralfix.com.au/a/aff_f4v8nv0s/external?affcode=816331_tcfvkaa4">here</a>.</p><p>Check out the course outline <a href="https://www.funeralfix.com.au/course-outline">here</a>.</p><p>Read their FAQs <a href="https://www.funeralfix.com.au/faq">here</a>.</p><p>Get Yaz&#8217;s Funeral Planner <a href="https://www.riteofpassagefunerals.com.au/how-to-create-an-unforgettable-funeral">here</a>.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding dream vendors]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I first started my business, I had a relationship with a vendor who I engaged to help set up some back-end systems for my customer experience.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/finding-dream-vendors-139</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/finding-dream-vendors-139</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2024 21:05:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073591/5b2ca4a2729354956f56f6d7e9bea831.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first started my business, I had a relationship with a vendor who I engaged to help set up some back-end systems for my customer experience. I was inspired to speak on this topic of finding your dream vendors because this experience was far from a dream. I felt like I was running out of time when I chose this vendor, and our relationship went south pretty quickly. There was no communication, I felt strung along and ended up taking legal advice after they ghosted me. After this experience, I swore that I never wanted a client of mine to ever feel this way. So I want to share that all with you in this episode to help you avoid the mistakes that I made and find the vendors that you dream of working with, which will ultimately lead to an incredible event for you.</p><p>In this episode, we&#8217;ll be diving into:</p><ul><li><p>My negative experience with a vendor for my own business and how it taught me to approach working with people moving forward.</p></li><li><p>The downfalls of being a people pleaser and tips to help you advocate for yourself when a vendor is not communicating well or isn&#8217;t keeping up with what you have contractually agreed upon.</p></li><li><p>The red flags to look out for when you engage with a vendor for your event and knowing when it&#8217;s time to break up with them.</p></li><li><p>Practical tips for ending the relationship when your vendor and what mistakes to avoid the next time you engage with vendors.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why we love and hate styled shoots]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode we explore the world of styled shoots - a topic that brings both excitement and challenges for you as a client.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-we-love-and-hate-styled-shoots-9ad</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-we-love-and-hate-styled-shoots-9ad</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jul 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073592/4adaab9c6447be7a37d67924ebdbd6bb.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode we explore the world of styled shoots - a topic that brings both excitement and challenges for you as a client. Styled shoots typically tend to prioritise aesthetics over anything else. By thinking critically about the images in front of you, you can really get a sense of what it is that you're drawn to and pull inspiration from it. We&#8217;ll discuss balancing inspiration with practicality, the importance of seeing your potential team&#8217;s work in action and how it can reassure you about their capabilities, as well as sharing how these shoots can help you communicate your unique vision to your vendor. I&#8217;ll share personal anecdotes and experiences, giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what goes into creating these beautiful yet sometimes impractical events. Whether you&#8217;re a client seeking inspiration or a vendor looking to collaborate, this episode is packed with valuable information and tips.</p><p>In this episode, we&#8217;ll be diving into:</p><ul><li><p>The behind-the-scenes of a styled shoot and why you may want to pay attention.</p></li><li><p>How styled shoots can serve as a visual guide, helping you understand what to expect from your prospective vendor team.</p></li><li><p>The common pitfalls and impracticalities of styled shoots, and how to be mindful of this when searching for inspiration.</p></li><li><p>Tips on using styled shoot inspiration wisely to create a personalised and practical event.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Decoding floral quotes]]></title><description><![CDATA[When it comes to floral quotes, transparency and understanding are key.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/decoding-floral-quotes-4f6</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/decoding-floral-quotes-4f6</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jul 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073593/04f4c77ce444f749ccb7fc8134314dd7.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to floral quotes, transparency and understanding are key. This aspect of my business is deeply personal to me because it's not just about the flowers or the numbers, it's about ensuring you feel confident and informed when making decisions for your events. Breaking down the complexities of floral pricing brings a sense of trust and clarity to your relationship with your vendor, and allows you to create unforgettable moments together. I hope that this conversation helps you navigate this process with a bit more ease and confidence, so that you can put the trust in your team and focus on the joy of your event.</p><p>In this episode, we&#8217;ll be diving into:</p><ul><li><p>Trends that I have noticed during my sister-in-law&#8217;s experience with her own wedding quotes and what it reveals about the industry.</p></li><li><p>The three main factors that influence floral quotes and how to understand why there is such a price variation between different quotes.</p></li><li><p>Practical advice on considering the designer&#8217;s experience and style to make the best choice for your event to ensure you trust them and their quote.</p></li><li><p>My thoughts on the significance of overheads, sustainable practices, team expertise and how it can impact pricing.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to style your wedding dress with flowers featuring special guest Anna Campbell Bridal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Join us in this episode as we chat with Anna, the visionary behind Anna Campbell Bridal.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-to-style-your-wedding-dress-with-6c3</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-to-style-your-wedding-dress-with-6c3</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jul 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073594/fecee44e1e65a6175160557858f8caaf.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join us in this episode as we chat with Anna, the visionary behind Anna Campbell Bridal.&nbsp;</p><p>Known for her stunning, handcrafted bridal gowns that blend new-age romance with dreamy elegance, Anna shares her journey as a designer and her passion for creating unforgettable moments.&nbsp;</p><p>This conversation goes well beyond fashion - it&#8217;s about creating unforgettable moments and meaningful experiences. Anna provides so many invaluable insights and tips for brides-to-be, this episode is a must-listen for anyone starting their journey into the bridalwear world.&nbsp;</p><p>What we cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Hear Anna&#8217;s journey into bridal fashion and the unique elements that define her stunning collections, from delicate floral lines to textural laces.</p></li><li><p>Learn how she balances current trends with her signature style, her commitment to sustainability, and the art of personalisation as she collaborates with brides to create bespoke gowns.</p></li><li><p>Get practical advice on creating unforgettable wedding moments and insights on how to perfectly pair floral arrangements with Anna Campbell gowns for a harmonious wedding look.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>Connect with Anna Campbell Bridal on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/annacampbellbridal/">@annacampbellbridal</a></p><p>Visit Anna&#8217;s website: <a href="https://www.annacampbell.com.au/">https://www.annacampbell.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The significance of funeral flowers in honouring your person]]></title><description><![CDATA[When someone passes away, emotions run deep.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-significance-of-funeral-flowers-49d</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/the-significance-of-funeral-flowers-49d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073595/5cc0c56970050bc658f9dd542ca95254.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When someone passes away, emotions run deep. Unlike other events, funerals involve a strong desire to honour the person authentically rather than focusing primarily on aesthetics. This makes custom funeral design a deeply personal aspect of my business as it brings a closeness and intimacy with my clients that is unmatched. Being trusted with this responsibility is a profound honour for my team and I. We understand it&#8217;s about creating lasting memories of our clients&#8217; final moments with their loved one.</p><p>What I cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>How my personal experiences with loss, alongside my partner's insights from working in palliative care, shaped my approach to funeral design.</p></li><li><p>Professional funeral training that transformed my understanding of death, highlighting the significance of personalisation and meaningful rituals.</p></li><li><p>Examples of how I integrate personal details, passions, and memories into bespoke funeral floral designs.</p></li><li><p>Reflections on the importance of legacy and how my work inspires thoughts on how we're remembered.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why designing with intention creates your dream event]]></title><description><![CDATA[This week we're going to be taking a step back from the flowers and going deeper on design.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-designing-with-intention-creates-4bc</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/why-designing-with-intention-creates-4bc</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 25 Jun 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073596/e08368856bf317c9cb6ea2a457348b4b.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week we're going to be taking a step back from the flowers and going deeper on design. We&#8217;ll be diving into designing with intention - what it means, why we love this approach, how I go about it and some examples. You might be thinking &#8220;what does that have to do with me exactly, you&#8217;re the designer?&#8221; but I believe that there are certain responsibilities that the client has to make this possible, and this same approach should be used throughout your entire event, to truly create something that captures your heart and speaks to your soul. This conversation is truly going to change your perspective on consciously designing your next event.&nbsp;</p><p>What I cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Why I choose to look beyond aesthetics alone when it comes to designing.</p></li><li><p>The five principles of designing with intention that I use.</p></li><li><p>Keeping your values front of mind when choosing your vendors.</p></li><li><p>One of my favourite real-life examples of implementing intentional elements.</p></li></ul><p><a href="https://www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-101-what-is-symbolism-symbolism-definition-and-examples-in-literature">Read the article on symbolism here</a>.</p><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p><p><br><br>This week we're going to be taking a step back from the flowers and going deeper on design. We&#8217;ll be diving into designing with intention - what it means, why we love this approach, how I go about it and some examples. You might be thinking &#8220;what does that have to do with me exactly, you&#8217;re the designer?&#8221; but I believe that there are certain responsibilities that the client has to make this possible, and this same approach should be used throughout your entire event, to truly create something that captures your heart and speaks to your soul. This conversation is truly going to change your perspective on consciously designing your next event.&nbsp;<br></p><p>What I cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Why I choose to look beyond aesthetics alone when it comes to designing.</p></li><li><p>The five principles of designing with intention that I use.</p></li><li><p>Keeping your values front of mind when choosing your vendors.</p></li><li><p>One of my favourite real-life examples of implementing intentional elements.</p></li></ul><p><a href="https://www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-101-what-is-symbolism-symbolism-definition-and-examples-in-literature">Read the article on symbolism here</a>.</p><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to budget for your wedding or event]]></title><description><![CDATA[This week I'm diving into a topic that often makes people squirm a bit: money.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-to-budget-for-your-wedding-or-eb9</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/how-to-budget-for-your-wedding-or-eb9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073597/d340e0d214c87b5842c9c7a514e3a087.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week I'm diving into a topic that often makes people squirm a bit: money.</p><p>But don't worry, I'm here to make it a little less daunting.&nbsp;</p><p>Join me for a heart-to-heart about money, value, and the magic that happens when you align your spending with your vision.&nbsp;</p><p>Whether you're organising a wedding, a celebration of life, or a corporate event - it's not <em>just</em> about sticking to a budget.&nbsp;It's about knowing what you value and ensuring every dollar spent adds something special to your event.&nbsp;</p><p>I'll even be sharing real-life examples from my floral design business to show you how thoughtful financial planning can help you navigate your next event with ease and confidence.&nbsp;</p><p>I promise you'll come away with a fresh perspective on how to make the most of your budget and create truly memorable moments.</p><p>What I cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>How your perception towards money can influence your planning experience.</p></li><li><p>The power in being flexible and adaptable when it comes to the value of your allocation.</p></li><li><p>Ways to consider the value of your vendor&#8217;s expertise and services.</p></li><li><p>Tips to help prevent the overwhelm in the early stages of planning your financial allocation.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding inspiration for your next event]]></title><description><![CDATA[This episode is a fun one because I&#8217;m giving you my top three hacks for finding inspiration.]]></description><link>https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/finding-inspiration-for-your-next-77a</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://breefloristcoach.substack.com/p/finding-inspiration-for-your-next-77a</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bree Michaelas]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2024 19:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/203073598/db5667be8728d8411734c73daef06d40.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode is a fun one because I&#8217;m giving you my top three hacks for finding inspiration. When it comes to a new event, I love nothing more than a client who comes to me feeling excited and inspired about what we're going to create together. Now I will not be telling you to mindlessly scroll through Instagram or Pinterest - whilst I think there is a time and place for that - it will only get you so far in your planning process. Let&#8217;s dig deeper into the why behind particular things that inspire you and your creative mind.</p><p>What I cover in this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Why your energy towards the planning process dictates the level of success your event has.</p></li><li><p>How to swap mindless scrolling for intentional searching.</p></li><li><p>What I do to get inspired and what you can&nbsp;do too.</p></li><li><p>How being inspired creates a solid foundation for talking with your vendors.</p></li></ul><p>Let&#8217;s make your events truly special, one conversation at a time.</p><p>---</p><p>Enquire for your next event <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/contact">here</a>.</p><p>Connect with Bree on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aprilandfritz">@aprilandfritz</a></p><p>Check out our website: <a href="https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/">https://www.aprilandfritz.com.au/</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Make sure to subscribe so you don&#8217;t miss any future episodes!</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>